Mosha
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Post by Mosha on Jul 3, 2015 19:52:15 GMT 7
OK wife's half brother mat be dieing. No one has said ehat the cause is but we are not dicounting AIDS. He's an a_hole, and not well loved except by his mum, even though he steals from her, Now his ex left him 5 years ago, and I said to my wife if it is Aids she should get a check up. Wife thinks 5 years is long enough, I think it's too close to tell. She has another partner now. What do you think?
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Post by thaddeus on Jul 4, 2015 9:20:55 GMT 7
Five years is not enough.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 4, 2015 13:28:46 GMT 7
Can be dormant in your system and only a HIV test can show it up, get a test for peace of mind. Full blood to discount anything else.
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Mosha
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Post by Mosha on Jul 4, 2015 17:01:52 GMT 7
Thanks, tried to tell My wife to tell her ex SIL, but I'm p**sing into the wind.Both him and his dad (He's not my wife's father) have been visiting the town's brothels since before I've known them. Not much more I can do.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 4, 2015 17:24:29 GMT 7
Then keep a respectable distance from the developments, it's about being responsible on their side, HIV is not the common cold.
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Post by patsycat on Jul 4, 2015 20:12:03 GMT 7
I remember, about 20 years ago, a friend of mine who is HIV positive asked me if i would give him a sloppy kiss knowing what i knew.
Then i said no, but nowadays i probably would. People can live normally with HIV, they just need to be educamated more and take their medication and use condoms. Which i hope most people use anyway. My friend is still alive and shall be for a long time.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 4, 2015 20:45:40 GMT 7
I don't know Patsy, those sloppy kisses can lead to much more. Always practice safe sex.
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Mosha
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Post by Mosha on Jul 5, 2015 8:48:04 GMT 7
Subtle as a brick. Sopha asked his sister last night. We were out at a pre funeral night. She said (and it sounded like) teechure. Sopha says it's something to do with the brain. He's got tubes up his nose.
I have seen an AIDS patient 3 days before death. You could have wrapped your little finger round her wrist.
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Post by The Arrow on Jul 5, 2015 21:55:25 GMT 7
Subtle as a brick. Sopha asked his sister last night. We were out at a pre funeral night. She said (and it sounded like) teechure. Sopha says it's something to do with the brain. He's got tubes up his nose. I have seen an AIDA patient 3 days before death. You could have wrapped your little finger round her wrist. Yes it really is quite horrifying. A few people I know in Thailand either have it or have died of it. One was a Cambodian woman with a Canadian partner. Whilst she was dying he was in a brothel.
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Post by cc1 on Jul 5, 2015 23:47:37 GMT 7
When I worked in Africa 60% of our staff has been infected but I haven't been scared with body contact as long no fluids where involved...
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Post by Mosha on Jul 6, 2015 6:58:51 GMT 7
Subtle as a brick. Sopha asked his sister last night. We were out at a pre funeral night. She said (and it sounded like) teechure. Sopha says it's something to do with the brain. He's got tubes up his nose. I have seen an AIDA patient 3 days before death. You could have wrapped your little finger round her wrist. Yes it really is quite horrifying. A few people I know in Thailand either have it or have died of it. One was a Cambodian woman with a Canadian partner. Whilst she was dying he was in a brothel. The 1 I saw was just down the road. The story was, her husband was working and screwing around in Patong. Came home, infected his wife. He died, so she went working the bars in Patong. As I was looking at her, Sopha asked me what I was thinking, I said, "I'm wondering how many she has infected and will kill".
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Post by Mosha on Jul 6, 2015 12:38:38 GMT 7
We've just got back from the hospital after taking some food and money for Sopha's mum.. He's on a monitor a big tube going into his mouth which is taped up. Also tied to the bed .The monitor is reading heart which is all over the place 59 to 134 and spikes to over 230 when he's coughing which is every few minutes. Must be hard with his mouth taped up.Blood pressure is about 134 over 90. It's monitoring something else which was around 19, but I don't know what that is.
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