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Post by Deleted on Nov 10, 2015 1:10:12 GMT 7
To me, life is too short to hold grudges. My Dad always said that people hold a grudge where their brain should be.
I think he's right.
You find that people who have nothing going on in their lives fulminate bitterly over the most stupid of things.
Successful people don't have time for all that BS.
Anyway - my ex-wife isn't too keen on me. I annoy her because I got on with my life - which to some women, is a cardinal sin. In saying that, though, she still talks to me when the occasion arises - and I like that.
Today, my ex in Thailand was in touch to organize my drinks order for my arrival. She'll have the cases of wine and whisky delivered to my suite prior to me showing up. She's married now and I'm delighted that she's married - and I'll be delighted to meet her new man, a Thai fellow that plays in night club bands. The good thing about my ex is that she has always been involved in the Promotions trade ( Chivas Girl ) and now works for a drinks importer. Through her I get to see all the happening places in CM and around. Knowing her makes my life better.
How do you get on with your ex?
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Post by smokie36 on Nov 10, 2015 1:17:36 GMT 7
I've never been daft enough to get married.
Not yet...
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Post by Deleted on Nov 10, 2015 1:27:04 GMT 7
I've never been daft enough to get married. Not yet... Ah, in these modern days marriage is not always part of the deal. People can be a lifetime together without walking down the aisle. Anyway, I understand that some divorces can be acrimonious, and the best thing to do is move on - but to hold a grudge is a terrible thing. "The opposite of love is not hate - the opposite of love is indifference." Holding grudges for years is a terrible thing. A psychiatric condition, even. |
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Post by Soutpeel on Nov 10, 2015 4:21:02 GMT 7
Thankfully haven't spoke to my Ex-wife in nearly 13 years....
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Post by Deleted on Nov 10, 2015 4:28:37 GMT 7
Thankfully haven't spoke to my Ex-wife in nearly 13 years.... You created a better life after divorce - you can't beat that. Taking advantage of a genuine second chance at life. |
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Post by Deleted on Nov 10, 2015 8:38:54 GMT 7
Depends under what circumstances you split up in the first place.
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Post by cc1 on Nov 10, 2015 10:26:40 GMT 7
In the past I've not JUST talked to my ex- girlfriends
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Post by geronimo on Nov 10, 2015 11:18:31 GMT 7
She's on the other side of the world, luckily. I once told her she should go and live in India, the cow is sacred over there!
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Post by me on Nov 10, 2015 11:22:25 GMT 7
She's on the other side of the world, luckily. I once told her she should go and live in India, the cow is sacred over there! I had to shut my daughter up very quicky there. She looked at the starving cows wandering round Varanasi and said: "How can they be so cruel to those cows, Why don't they shoot them." |
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Post by smokie36 on Nov 10, 2015 11:22:57 GMT 7
I suppose the key is to both be happily divorced....  |
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Post by Deleted on Nov 10, 2015 16:59:26 GMT 7
She's on the other side of the world, luckily. I once told her she should go and live in India, the cow is sacred over there! I had to shut my daughter up very quicky there. She looked at the starving cows wandering round Varanasi and said: "How can they be so cruel to those cows, Why don't they shoot them." Varanasi - did you enjoy it Me? It's a place that intrigues me, never been though. |
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Post by Deleted on Nov 10, 2015 17:02:08 GMT 7
In the past I've not JUST talked to my ex- girlfriends Pleasing to hear that, it would be a strange fish indeed that ONLY spoke to their ex-girlfriends.  Anyway - I'll arrange a night or two with her and her family. Good people. It will be nice to see them again. |
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Post by Deleted on Nov 11, 2015 21:22:18 GMT 7
In the past I've not JUST talked to my ex- girlfriends Nudge, nudge, wink, wink say no more  |
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Post by Deleted on Nov 12, 2015 11:06:47 GMT 7
Today, my ex in Thailand was in touch to organize my drinks order for my arrival.  |
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