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Post by buhi on Feb 20, 2016 1:19:18 GMT 7
There is, I cannot describe it. A nunnery school, convent it is named. Opposite some dwellings. Each one room, an open sewer releases the water. There some of the workers of patpong sleep. You will never see it, I doubt. My wife's adopted brother ended up there. A black, well half black. Child of a war in Nam. Adopted by the family. Why, I have no idea. Well, have been told grandmother wanted another son. She's dead now. (6. Anyway, they were raised together, my wife and the blacky. He did not exist. Was not Thai. I knew him as my wife's brother. Learnt to hate him. Not his fault. Mine. He tried to serve. Had a baby in that convent compound.
Mother a bar woman. He died of cancer last year. Had long deserted his woman and child. She phoned my wife. Long ago. Family accept the child. I do not know much. They provide I think. I hated him by the end. Family hate me now, not ended yet. My wife sleeps as I write.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 20, 2016 11:07:51 GMT 7
There is, I cannot describe it. A nunnery school, convent it is named. Opposite some dwellings. Each one room, an open sewer releases the water. There some of the workers of patpong sleep. You will never see it, I doubt. My wife's adopted brother ended up there. A black, well half black. Child of a war in Nam. Adopted by the family. Why, I have no idea. Well, have been told grandmother wanted another son. She's dead now. (6. Anyway, they were raised together, my wife and the blacky. He did not exist. Was not Thai. I knew him as my wife's brother. Learnt to hate him. Not his fault. Mine. He tried to serve. Had a baby in that convent compound. Mother a bar woman. He died of cancer last year. Had long deserted his woman and child. She phoned my wife. Long ago. Family accept the child. I do not know much. They provide I think. I hated him by the end. Family hate me now, not ended yet. My wife sleeps as I write. Just goes to show that hatred is a poor emotion. Som nam na.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 20, 2016 11:12:55 GMT 7
Reminds me of a trip to the Temple I took - the Head Monk said - "Accept - you cannot control it, you cannot change it." "You can tell your body to not be sick?" "No." "You can tell your body to not grow old?" "No." "You can tell your family that you don't like the child from Nam who has been part fo their lives forever?" "Yes." "And what do you hope to achieve by that? ............................... I made the last bit up, just in case you are wondering. You are never, ever, going to win that battle. Ever. And now he's dead he's still haunting you. FFS.
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Post by buhi on Feb 20, 2016 11:32:31 GMT 7
No, not haunting .Hatred was too strong a word.We had a falling out, my fault, but their were consequences.I removed myself from any contact, never stated why, my sins.
In another's terminology he was a pikey.
What else could he be? No Thai identity,no identity card, no education, no identity card, only available employment in the underworld,no identity card, a pimp in Patpong. I was ensured safety there with his connections. He abused my friendship,and all who tried to get him out of the mess. Drugs, drink and all. Aunt used her connections to get him Thai nationality. Sold his card to buy drugs. The pit he was in determined by birth.Black ,illegitimate, son of a whore. We were friends once, he was a faithful brother to my wife,but not true enough. No, does not haunt me.
Serendipity, as I was writing, mother in law phoned, would I go with them on a family outing tomorrow? I agreed to end the self imposed isolation. The row was over a year ago
.Drugs were part of it. Not taken by me.Let's just say I know too much.
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Post by bowie on Feb 20, 2016 12:00:10 GMT 7
I write quickly, driven by raw emotion. It can lead to inferences, fine. The dark side. I need to state that my wife is in no way involved with drugs; she does not drink either. My step son, her son, a different matter. Two years served in prison for dealing. Who provided the connections? He's a mental case now. The tangled webs we weave.
"Take a walk on the wild side,".
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Post by cmk on Feb 20, 2016 12:30:29 GMT 7
I write quickly, driven by raw emotion. It can lead to inferences, fine. The dark side. I need to state that my wife is in no way involved with drugs; she does not drink either. My step son, her son, a different matter. Two years served in prison for dealing. Who provided the connections? He's a mental case now. The tangled webs we weave. "Take a walk on the wild side,". The song is about ladyboys. Is the stepson a ladyboy?
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Post by bowie on Feb 20, 2016 15:00:21 GMT 7
No stepson isn't, a cabbage more like. Plenty of ladyboys on the wildside of patpong. You need more imagination. The song is indeed about one aspect of the wild side. I think it has broader references, but that is my interpretation.
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Post by onionluke on Feb 20, 2016 16:06:19 GMT 7
It's definatley about sunbathing, hairy , road hitting ladyboys.
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Post by cmk on Feb 20, 2016 16:26:28 GMT 7
It's definatley about sunbathing, hairy , road hitting ladyboys. The "wild side" means having sex with ladyboys. Having sex with hetro hookers is normal. Having sex with ladyboys is wild and that's always been my experience. The ladyboy in the song is asking a customer to have sex with a transvestite implying that is wild.
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Post by bowie on Feb 20, 2016 17:45:07 GMT 7
A trip on the wilder side of Bangkok:
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Post by bowie on Feb 20, 2016 22:24:46 GMT 7
And before anyone comments above video is tame, sure. To video in said areas is likely to cause you serious injuries. Such a a video would not be on youtube. My point, if it needs reinforcing,is the "wild side" refers to much more than ladyboys. Warhol might well have intended to shock with amongst the first explicit references to trans gender in pop culture, but the wild side was not limited to sexuality. In essence it might have been, but thats a can of worms, campbells.
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Post by rgs2001uk on Feb 20, 2016 22:27:36 GMT 7
The GREATEST rock n roll group ever.
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Post by rgs2001uk on Feb 20, 2016 22:30:09 GMT 7
Lou wrote about and sang about life on the mean sois.
Others wrote about going to Kalifonnia with flowers in their hair.
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Post by rgs2001uk on Feb 20, 2016 22:31:28 GMT 7
Lou nails it yet again.
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Post by rgs2001uk on Feb 20, 2016 22:32:30 GMT 7
More greatness from the great man.
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