Yes , with friends.
All Thai.
I said a few outrageous things, no not political,it was sarcasm about my friends.
So what are you searching for?
I have found it.
I know it may not last, has for twenty one years, that is a hell of a long time.
And you want to mess with those friends or my family?
Not necessary,we all live together.
Is it ideal, i doubt it, but it satisfies the old person i am.
Touch me and see what happens.
And me, i touch no one, just spit out my  idiosyncratic humour and all laugh. Back to the UK, never.
Carry on looking, for wealth and travel.
Done all that.
An evening with friends. Old friends, of children i knew before they were born, of those who accept me. The kids , they make me smile. Give me their abuse, nicely and we laugh.
Parents who know they can 100% trust me.
Of a community.
Old uncle, there for all and all there for me.
Keep searching if you have not found it.
But it does not come quickly, it takes years.
Carry on searching.
Or settle down and take time, a long time.
Or go back to your home town/city and pretend.
My home is here.